Mandela Effect: It’s not the truth

The Mandela Effect is a phenomenon that shows how our mind can play tricks on us. A large group of people remember an event or detail differently from how it actually occurred. Humans arent perfect and are influenced by such biases. One such example is the famous quote from Snow White.

Compliance: fulfil my wish

Have you ever wanted someone to fulfil a wish of yours? Compliance refers to behaving in response to a request from another person. Here are a few techniques to make others comply with your requests.

The darkest hour is just before dawn

Metaphorically, it means to reach the state of lightness or success, an individual has to push through the darkness. Success is preceded by numerous failures. Failures are a part of life and they teach you more about life. They form the path to success.

Comparison of children: Discouragement

Comparison is the thief of joy. Discouraging the child when he/she engages in self-initiative activities and constantly comparing them causes more harm than good. Don't compare your child to others. There's no comparison between the sun and the moon.

Pygmalion effect: you can do it!

According to the Pygmalion Effect, high expectations held by others help improve the performance of a person. When everyone believes in your potential, your self perception increases and this boosts your motivation to perform better!

Growing up: a seed into a plant

Your transformation from a seed into a plant is precious and delicate. There may be ups and downs in the way but in the end the prettiest flowers will bloom and you will turn out to be the best version of yourself possible.

Pratfall Effect: likeability

People who are considered highly skilled are found more likeable when they make a mistake as they seem relatable and human-like. But when a not so competent person makes a mistake, the likeability decreases.

Defence mechanisms: distort reality

Avoiding anxiety by distorting reality characterizes defence mechanisms. Repressing anxiety producing thoughts, denying the reality, making unreasonable feelings reasonable, behaving in the opposite manner and taking out your emotions on someone who doesn't deserve it are few of the defence mechanisms we may take part it. Is it healthy?

Losing someone: Grieving

Losing people is a part of life. Grieving is an important process that helps us come to terms with it. People adopt different coping mechanisms. Being intact with your feelings and not keeping it all in is an important part of it.

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