The Mandela Effect is a phenomenon that shows how our mind can play tricks on us. A large group of people remember an event or detail differently from how it actually occurred. Humans arent perfect and are influenced by such biases. One such example is the famous quote from Snow White.
Compliance: fulfil my wish
Have you ever wanted someone to fulfil a wish of yours? Compliance refers to behaving in response to a request from another person. Here are a few techniques to make others comply with your requests.
The darkest hour is just before dawn
Metaphorically, it means to reach the state of lightness or success, an individual has to push through the darkness. Success is preceded by numerous failures. Failures are a part of life and they teach you more about life. They form the path to success.
Growing up: a seed into a plant
Your transformation from a seed into a plant is precious and delicate. There may be ups and downs in the way but in the end the prettiest flowers will bloom and you will turn out to be the best version of yourself possible.
Imposter syndrome: are you an imposter?
Do you ever feel like an imposter? Do you ever think "I do not deserve so many praises"? Do you set high standards for yourself? Do you yoj feel like you aren't enough?
Pratfall Effect: likeability
People who are considered highly skilled are found more likeable when they make a mistake as they seem relatable and human-like. But when a not so competent person makes a mistake, the likeability decreases.
Defence mechanisms: distort reality
Avoiding anxiety by distorting reality characterizes defence mechanisms. Repressing anxiety producing thoughts, denying the reality, making unreasonable feelings reasonable, behaving in the opposite manner and taking out your emotions on someone who doesn't deserve it are few of the defence mechanisms we may take part it. Is it healthy?
Losing someone: Grieving
Losing people is a part of life. Grieving is an important process that helps us come to terms with it. People adopt different coping mechanisms. Being intact with your feelings and not keeping it all in is an important part of it.
Reactance: don’t open this link!
Reactance phenomenon refers to an unpleasant reaction when a person's freedom of behavior is threatened. When the feeling of freedom is threatened, preventing you from acting as you wish, it makes you want to protect your freedom and control it.
Zeigarnik effect: inc_mplete tasks
Our brain is better at recalling incomplete or interrupted tasks than complete ones. We are more motivated to finish it. Our subconscious mind tells our conscious mind to make a plan to achieve the goal. After the goal is achieved, our mind no longer works on making plans for it.